It
was then April of 1989. Not too long after that, Ruth Ann sued for
divorce. It was official in August of that year. It was the most
difficult piece of paper for me to sign. I had a lot of guilt about
abandoning my sons, Nathan and Daniel to live with a witch. I had
asked my former family to come up and live in Pullman but Ruth Ann
was set on staying in Utah. And the money I was making wasn't much
but above minimum wage. I was paid on an hourly basis of $10 per
hour. I sold all my electronic stuff to Decagon for $5,000. That
allowed me to pay child support for almost 10 months or so. I wasn't
under any court order but I sent $400 per month. The divorce decree
was for $400 per month but was increased to $600 per month when Ruth
Ann sued again in 1997. I didn't go to court but just let her win.
The fight wasn't in me. The extra was about $10,000 in billback which
I paid in monthly amounts after paying off the child support. I made
her wait but she got it all. She tried every trick to get that money
accelerated including complaining to my Stake President and Branch
Presidents on several occasions. She wanted a church court to settle
by forcing me to pay or taking away my membership or temple
recommend. She was THE biggest mistake of my life. The Church leaders
refused to do any of her bidding although they questioned me several
times since they had been contacted by her bishops.
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